Guru Ram Das composed a hymn known as 'Lawan' in Suhi Mohalla 4, page 773 of Guru
Sahib, and asked his Sikhs to recite them to solemnize marriages. The Sabad 'Lawan'
in itself a lesson for the couple to develop true love for each other. In reality
is for a human being to develop love for the divine ridegroom.
The Guru composed the following Sabad to instruct his Sikhs in the practice of their
"He who calleth himself a Sikh of the true Guru, should rise early and meditate
He should make an effort early in the morning, bathe in the inner tank of nectar;
Repeat God's Name under Guru's instruction, and all his sins and transgressions shall
At sunrise he should sing the Guru's hymns, and whether sitting or standing meditate
The disciple who at every breath meditateth on God, will be dear to the Guru; The
instruction to that disciple to whom my Lord bestows His grace;
The servant Nanak prayeth for the dust of the feet of such a disciple of the Guru who
God's Name and causeth others to do so."
(Gauri Ki Var- Mohalla 4, p-305-6)
SELECTION OF GURUSHIP:
Sahari Mal, Guru's cousin from Lahore, invited the Guru to grace his son's marriage.
reason the Guru could not go, but he asked his eldest son, Prithi Chand to attend
marriage. Prithi Chand refused to go. His refusal is attributed to possibly two
is said that he was incharge of the offerings that were made to the Guru and was
furtively set aside much wealth for himself. If he had gone to Lahore, this illicit
might have fallen in somebody else's hands. Secondly he thought that the time was
approaching for the selection of a person to succeed his father as Guru and so he
remain in Amritsar. Mahadev, the Guru's second son, did not want to go because of
indifference to worldly affairs. The third son, Arjan Dev agreed to attend the
was instructed to stay on in Lahore after the marriage to look after the affairs of
Sangat of that place.
After some time he started feeling the pangs of separation for his father and the
wrote three letters, two of which were intercepted by his elder brother, Prithi
letter marked '3', reached the Guru and Arjan Dev was immediately recalled from
his return he told his father that he had sent three letters. The truth came to
Prithi Chand was forced to produce the other two letters. Thus Prithi Chand's
Guru Ram Das embraced Arjan Dev, sent for five paise and a coco-nut, and placed them
him. He descending from his throne, seated him there before the whole assembly of
Bhai Buddha affixed the tilak of spiritual sovereignty to Arjan Dev's forehead, and
was proclaimed as Guru Arjan Dev. This appened in August, 1581.
Prithi Chand became so mad that he addressed his father in abusive language. He told
Buddha that his father acted improperly in giving Guruship to his younger brother.
that he would remove Guru Arjan and would seat himself on the Guru Gaddi (throne).
counselled him not to quarrel about it, but Prithi Chand refused to submit and
attitude of open defiance.
Having nominated Guru Arjan Dev, Guru Ram Das left for his old headquarters at
After a few days He left eft this world on the first of September, 1581.